THE YIN AND YANG OF GROWTH: TRANSFORMING PAIN INTO PURPOSE
I'm Jacqueline Emma Moseby, AKA Jaxx, a Certified HE(ART) Awakening Coach, Guide, and Mentor.
From navigating 7 million metaphorical Rabbit Holes to being struck by an "Awakening train" and riding seven roller coasters, I write into the tumultuous yet illuminating stages of my Awakening. It launched a powerful business for me and now I get to help you do the same through Awakening modalities and my Signature Processes.
"IMAGINATION BECAME MY PEN OF DESIGN"
I have merged my corporate careers with a unique way of INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENTIATION and Authentic Expression! Through my Awakening I discovered the art of merging the "woo-woo" with the boardroom, infusing my Spiritual Awakening into the corporate hustle.
I’m delighted to offer an interactive experience through my Articles, and creating a Soul’s Quest Journal for you has been a true pleasure! My aim is to provide more than just a article to read. If the content resonates with you and brings about insights, shifts, visions, or memories, I believe you deserve a special space to delve deeper into the topics your soul is guiding you to explore.
At the beginning of each Article, you’ll find soul-searching questions related to the topic of the Article. Use these questions as a starting point to do a self led Coaching Session and dive deep into your Inner work. The Journal is a valuable resource that will help you extract the maximum benefit from the Article content and empower you to address any challenges you may be facing in the present moment.
Information is alive and pulsing with its own Consciousness, resonating with yours.
I’m delighted to offer an interactive experience through my Articles, and creating a Soul’s Quest Journal for you has been a true pleasure! My aim is to provide more than just a article to read. If the content resonates with you and brings about insights, shifts, visions, or memories, I believe you deserve a special space to delve deeper into the topics your soul is guiding you to explore.
At the beginning of each Article, you’ll find soul-searching questions related to the topic of the Article. Use these questions as a starting point to do a self led Coaching Session and dive deep into your Inner work. The Journal is a valuable resource that will help you extract the maximum benefit from the Article content and empower you to address any challenges you may be facing in the present moment.
Information is alive and pulsing with its own Consciousness, resonating with yours.
“THE IMPORTANT THING IS TO NOT STOP QUESTIONING. CURIOSITY HAS ITS OWN REASON FOR EXISTING.“
-Albert Einstein
JOURNAL QUESTIONS:
- What are the aspects of my shadow self that I’ve been avoiding or pushing away? Reflect on the parts of yourself that you might be reluctant to acknowledge or accept.
- How have my dark experiences contributed to my growth and learning? Look back at challenging times and explore the lessons they’ve provided you.
- What strengths have I discovered in myself through facing adversity? Recall moments of resilience and consider the inner resources you tapped into.
- When do I feel most authentic, and how can I bring forth that authenticity every day? Identify the circumstances under which you feel true to yourself, and how you can cultivate that authenticity more consistently.
- What can my darkness teach me about compassion, for myself and for others? Consider how your personal challenges can enhance your empathy and understanding towards yourself and others.
VOID – AWAKENING
STAGE 2 – PART 7
YOUR AWAKENING IS YOUR BLOOM:
- A FLOWER THAT HAS GROWN THROUGH HER DARKNESS.
- YOU ARE BLOOMING IN SPITE OF THE DARKNESS.
- YOU SHINE IN THE SHADE.
- EMBRACE IT!
- I’VE GOT YOU!
- YOU’VE GOT YOU!
- YOU’RE GOING TO BE MORE THAN OK!
- YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES!
INTRODUCTION:
In this compelling exploration of personal evolution, “The Yin and Yang of Growth: Transforming Pain into Purpose” delves into the dualistic nature of transformative experiences. It poses that within every moment of suffering lies an opportunity for growth and enlightenment. This article will guide you through understanding how adversities could be catalysts for profound self-discovery and how embracing the polarity of experiences can lead to a more purpose-driven existence. We will navigate the delicate balance between struggle and strength, learning how to harness life’s inevitable challenges as a means to unlock our full potential.
WHAT YOU WILL PONDER:
In the journey through this article, you will learn to recognise the intrinsic value that lies within difficult times and the transformative power they hold. We’ll explore strategies for transmuting pain into a force for positive change. You’ll discover methods for maintaining balance amidst life’s turbulence and how to embrace both the yin and yang aspects of existence as integral to your personal growth. By the end, you’ll have a deeper insight into how to align your struggles with your purpose, turning life’s greatest obstacles into stepping stones on the path to a fulfilling life.
MY PERSONAL STORY:
Life is an endless rabbit hole of human paradoxes. I felt like I was beginning to bloom, once I accepted my own darkness. As I danced with it and no longer feared it I was invited by the light. It takes Sadness to know what happiness is, noise to appreciate silence, absence to appreciate presence. It’s your greatest opportunity to unite the dark and light sides of your life.
“I know my own darkness, so I am safe with yours.”
It’s one of the laws of the universe, everything has an opposite, in every failure lies a success. Failing means you are succeeding! This is why it is so important what you do with your failures. They are your next steps, the framework for the success you desire. The wisdom inside of me accepts that all things have two sides and then those sides have sides as well and then those have sides…
- What are you afraid to admit?
- What are you afraid of confessing?
- To look at the darkness inside of you would mean what?
ISAIAH 45: 7 : The one forming light and creating darkness, Causing well-being and creating calamity, I am the Lord who does all these.
The experiences of innate paradoxes that occurred in my inner world and outer world have shown me that I was compromised because I was not living my true purpose, and it also showed me that I couldn’t live my true purpose because I was compromised both are true.
Even though I have suffered through some dark scenarios in my life, they were also the reason I became more fully aligned with who I truly am. To resolve polarities, you work into the complementary and interdependent dynamics of you. We have a shadow within us and in the collective to reconcile so that we are able to shine during this time of ascension. What you do in yourself should automatically be done in others and for those who do not know how to do it for themselves yet. Dark and light exist in everyone and everything, living and non-living we are born and a part of a dualistic realm.
See that everyone, the whole world, has both dark and light for reasons we cannot comprehend, and you will dissolve your ego, your pride, your need to be right, the past, the un-forgiveness. Work on yourself and your light will get brighter and brighter. I can Guide you to accept and love the dark parts of yourself. Going through an awakening will grant you permission to tap into the keys that are in both your dark and light sides!
Just for a moment Imagine this with me:
Envision yourself as a castaway on an island. Initially, you’re injured and in a state of shock, struggling to grasp the reality of your situation. However, as time progresses, your survival instincts kick in, prompting you to focus on necessities such as food, shelter, and warmth. You begin to hunt, innovate, and utilise every available resource to ensure your survival.
During my awakening, I found myself in a state of forced surrender, like the feeling of being shipwrecked, wounded, and engulfed in emotional turmoil. Yet, as time progressed, it was as if I stumbled upon a cave that offered refuge and shelter. In this space, I began to craft a sanctuary. I surrounded myself with pin boards and sacred spaces where I could freely express my emotions—whether through tears, screams, or writing. I printed pictures and visions, engaged in crafting, and created walls of vision boards, immersing myself in a tangible exploration of all I had experienced. For the first time I realized that there are different types and variations of darkness.
Despite being engulfed in darkness and navigating through challenging circumstances, I found an unexpected comfort within it. This darkness felt almost protective, gentle in its essence, and surprisingly inviting. It seemed to offer me a chance to blend with it, suggesting that, once its work was done, my perception of darkness would be forever changed. This experience appeared to present an opportunity to reset all my senses, allowing me to recognize that darkness, too, holds a valuable place on the journey towards understanding and embracing love.
The darkness also taught me how to love!
YOUR STORY IS THE LIGHT IN SOMEONE ELSES DARKEST MOMENT.
YOUR EXPERIENCE:
As you stand here, in the shadows and light of your own life’s path, know that I see you. Through the lens of this article, I acknowledge the depth of your experience—the pain, the joy, the uncertainties, and the clear moments of truth. It is as if the words on these pages ripple through the air, resonating with the vibrations of your own story. Perhaps you’re feeling the weight of the darkness or maybe you’re basking in a sliver of light.
Whatever you are enduring, hear me when I say: you are not alone. Your struggle is seen, felt, and deeply understood. This moment of recognition is for you, as you bravely face what lies within and ahead, transforming your pain into the kind of purpose that only you can manifest. Let’s continue on this journey together, with every step being a nod to our collective growth.
How does this contribute to you building wealth,
health, success & happiness?
When we navigate through the depths of our experiences, especially the ones that push us to our limits, we forge a resilience that is indispensable to success—be it in love, happiness, or business. These trials are not mere obstacles; they are the kiln in which our spirit is tempered into something stronger and more enduring.
Every hardship you overcome reshapes your understanding and enhances your empathy, allowing you to build deeper connections with those around you. In business, this translates into an extraordinary capacity for understanding client needs, employee motivation, and a resilient approach to setbacks. The love and happiness we cultivate during these times become more profound because they are born of our truest selves, unfiltered and unafraid. Thus, the crucible of experience doesn’t just contribute to success—it is the very essence of it, yielding a life rich in authenticity and achievement.
“ I am here to guide you to your individual differentiation and your personal revolution!”
“Rising and going through the stages of Awakening can be brutal but it leads you to the paths of success, fulfilment and profound transformations.”
WIDSOM JEMS:
YOU ARE A PIECE OF ART! This is a time to piece yourself back together in a way that can reset the trajectory of, where you go, what you do, and how you do it forever. It is my Genius to help you gather the pieces of what you have thrown away or not even been conscious about and weave it into a incredible future journey where this place that you are in gets to be the last time that happens.
YOUR SPIRITUAL KEYS:
There are universal keys that resonate on physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual planes. These keys are not just concepts, but actionable insights that align with the wisdom shared in your transformation journey.
- Transcending Your Ego:
– Ego transcendence is a significant step on the path to inner peace and spiritual growth. Begin this journey by practicing mindfulness, observing your thoughts and emotions without attachment. As you become more mindful, you’ll notice how the ego seeks validation and control, often leading to dissatisfaction and disconnection. Cultivate humility and gratitude, focusing on the present moment and the interconnectedness of all things. - Key of Connectedness
– The Key of Connectedness is about understanding the intricate tapestry of life, in which we are all interwoven. Start by recognising the shared experiences that bind us, and foster empathy for others by truly listening to their stories and learning from their perspectives. Engage in acts of kindness, large or small, to create ripples of positivity within your community. Cultivate deep connections with those around you, the environment, and the greater cosmic order, acknowledging that your actions have a direct impact on the world. Darkness and light coexist, unlocking the key of connectedness, revealing the unity and dispelling the illusion of solitude. - Key of Transformation:
– Finally, the key of transformation is realised as you piece together the disparate parts of yourself. This key grants you the power to catalyse significant change in your life, facilitating a journey from pain to purpose, from brokenness to beauty, from darkness to light.
There are universal keys that resonate on physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual planes. These keys are not just concepts, but actionable insights that align with the wisdom shared in your transformation journey.
- Transcending Your Ego:
– Ego transcendence is a significant step on the path to inner peace and spiritual growth. Begin this journey by practicing mindfulness, observing your thoughts and emotions without attachment. As you become more mindful, you’ll notice how the ego seeks validation and control, often leading to dissatisfaction and disconnection. Cultivate humility and gratitude, focusing on the present moment and the interconnectedness of all things. - Key of Connectedness
– The Key of Connectedness is about understanding the intricate tapestry of life, in which we are all interwoven. Start by recognising the shared experiences that bind us, and foster empathy for others by truly listening to their stories and learning from their perspectives. Engage in acts of kindness, large or small, to create ripples of positivity within your community. Cultivate deep connections with those around you, the environment, and the greater cosmic order, acknowledging that your actions have a direct impact on the world. Darkness and light coexist, unlocking the key of connectedness, revealing the unity and dispelling the illusion of solitude. - Key of Transformation:
– Finally, the key of transformation is realised as you piece together the disparate parts of yourself. This key grants you the power to catalyse significant change in your life, facilitating a journey from pain to purpose, from brokenness to beauty, from darkness to light.
PONDERS AND WONDERS:
In the dance of light and shadow, we find the essence of our being. It is in the acceptance of our totality that we become whole, vibrant, and truly free. Consider this: Your darkness, once recognised and embraced, is not a pit of despair, but a fertile ground for transformation. Does it not hold within it, just like the night sky, countless stars — points of light that guide us towards our true north? The invitation is open; confront your shadows, for in doing so, you illuminate your path to enlightenment. As you step into your wholeness, ask yourself, “What beauty can my darkness reveal?” Your journey is unique, a masterpiece in progress. Trust the process and emerge with the wisdom that every part of you holds a purpose, and every experience, light or dark, is a brush stroke on the canvas of your life.
AWAKENING FITNESS:
When you have had an Awakening so many shifts happen in your mind, body, soul and spirit. Your body changes…Your mind changes…Your soul changes…Your spiritual walk changes…Finding your footing after an Awakening can be overwhelming, with all the changes and fluctuations. You need to get Mindfit, SoulFit, Bodfit, Spiritfit...to align to what you have Awakened to.
RABBIT HOLE NAVIGATIONS:
I’d like to emphasise that the most Powerful resource available is your own experience with the Source, with God, in whatever way feels Authentic to you. Engaging personally with the Divine Consciousness allows you to realize who you are, providing you with all the knowledge you need through this connection. It is in the quiet moments, when you simply allow yourself to connect, ask, and enter a state of meditation, that you can commune with your creator. Your heart holds all the answers, and you possess an internal guidance system that is awakening and now requires new training and refinement. This journey involves unlearning old patterns and rediscovering how to feel in new ways!
- The Shadow Effect: Illuminating the Hidden Power of Your True Self: Deepak Chopra, Debbie Ford, Marianne Williamson.
– This book reveals the profound power of the shadow, exploring how to uncover hidden potentials and greatness within our darkness. - Owning Your Own Shadow: Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche: by Robert A. Johnson
– Johnson delivers insights into the nature of the shadow and provides guidance on how to integrate it with our conscious mind to achieve balance. - Dark Nights of the Soul: A Guide to Finding Your Way Through Life’s Ordeals: by Thomas Moore
– Moore offers a compassionate lens through which to view your dark nights, framing them as opportunities for growth. - Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature: edited by Connie Zweig and Jeremiah Abrams
– This collection brings together the voice of various authors, addressing the multifaceted aspects of the shadow and its role in personal and cultural life. - The Light Inside the Dark: Zen, Soul, and the Spiritual Life: by John Tarrant
– Tarrant delves into the coexistence of light and dark within the human experience, suggesting how spiritual life can integrate these forces for personal transformation.
“It’s no use going back to yesterday, because I was a different person then.”
– LEWIS CAROL, ALICE IN WONDERLAND
Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?
“That depends a good deal on where you want to get to?”
If you’re experiencing the depths of Void, having tasted awakening and seeking strategic guidance for your rebirth.
HOP ON YOUR COACHING SESSION TO DISCOVER THE ROADMAP, CUSTOMISED TO YOU, TO CRAFT STRATEGIES AND POTENTIAL IN THIS PIVOTAL PHASE.
