THE ART OF BEING REAL: SHEDDING THE MASKS: THE TRUE SELF UNVEILED
I’m delighted to offer an interactive experience through my Articles, and creating a Soul’s Quest Journal for you has been a true pleasure! My aim is to provide more than just a article to read. If the content resonates with you and brings about insights, shifts, visions, or memories, I believe you deserve a special space to delve deeper into the topics your soul is guiding you to explore.
At the beginning of each Article, you’ll find soul-searching questions related to the topic of the Article. Use these questions as a starting point to do a self led Coaching Session and dive deep into your Inner work. The Journal is a valuable resource that will help you extract the maximum benefit from the Article content and empower you to address any challenges you may be facing in the present moment.
Information is alive and pulsing with its own Consciousness, resonating with yours.
I’m delighted to offer an interactive experience through my Articles, and creating a Soul’s Quest Journal for you has been a true pleasure! My aim is to provide more than just a article to read. If the content resonates with you and brings about insights, shifts, visions, or memories, I believe you deserve a special space to delve deeper into the topics your soul is guiding you to explore.
At the beginning of each Article, you’ll find soul-searching questions related to the topic of the Article. Use these questions as a starting point to do a self led Coaching Session and dive deep into your Inner work. The Journal is a valuable resource that will help you extract the maximum benefit from the Article content and empower you to address any challenges you may be facing in the present moment.
Information is alive and pulsing with its own Consciousness, resonating with yours.
“THE IMPORTANT THING IS TO NOT STOP QUESTIONING. CURIOSITY HAS ITS OWN REASON FOR EXISTING.“
-Albert Einstein
JOURNAL QUESTIONS:
- What masks do I wear most frequently, and in what situations do I feel compelled to put them on?
- How do these masks align with, or diverge from, my core values and beliefs?
- What fears or vulnerabilities am I protecting by maintaining these facades?
- In moments when I am most authentic, what differences do I notice in my interactions and feelings?
- What steps can I take to gently remove a mask and allow my true self to be seen, even if only in one aspect of my life?
DARK NIGHT OF THE SOUL – AWAKENING
STAGE 3 – PART 3
We all wear masks, and then the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing some of our own skin.
INTRODUCTION:
In today’s fast-paced world, the pressure to conform to societal expectations often leads us to masks that hide our authentic selves. “The Art of Being Real: Shedding the Masks” is a journey into the heart of authenticity, inviting you to embrace vulnerability and courage as you strip away the facades. This exploration is not just an act of self-discovery, but a challenging process of self-acceptance that calls for introspection, honesty, and the willingness to stand in your truth. Explore and expand into the transformative process of unveiling the true self to reveal your soulful self.
WHAT YOU WILL PONDER:
In this article, You’ll learn the importance of recognising the masks we wear and the reasons behind our urge to hide our true selves. We’ll discuss the psychological ramifications of living inauthentically and how it affects our relationships and well-being. Practical steps towards embracing authenticity will be shared, offering guidance on how to confront fears, cultivate self-awareness, and express your genuine self. You’ll have a deeper understanding of how to live with integrity, build truthful relationships, and foster a life that resonates with who you truly are inside.
MY PERSONAL STORY:
My quest for authenticity began at the crossroads of a profound sense of personal dissatisfaction. a realisation that I was playing a role that society and my family had scripted for me, rather than living a life true to myself. This awakening ignited my inner world and the desire for change. Through introspection and the courage to peel back the layers, I learned to embrace my vulnerabilities and relinquish the masks I had clung to for so long. My personal story is a testament to the fact that the journey towards living authentically is not just possible, but deeply liberating.
Are you sure you are who you are?
When you let go of what you are, who might you be?
There are many identities and false aspects of ourselves that are revealed during an Awakening.
You wear a mask for so long you forget who you are! Just remember the way you think about a person isn’t the way they actually are.
“The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade your reality for a role. You trade in your sense for an act. You give up your ability to feel, and in exchange, you put on a mask, many masks according to the belief system you did NOT teach yourself. There can’t be any large-scale revolution, until there is a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.”
– Jim Morrison
YOUR EXPERIENCE:
The most important freedom that an awakening brings is that you get to take off these masks that you have been wearing for so long and to slowly remember who you are by dissecting them, understanding them, leading you to incredible consequences of compassion and unconditional love for those identities and to be granted full understanding of why you had created them in the first place.
I guide you whilst you are taking these masks off and even perhaps in the bravest of moments, we can gently take the ones that you are not aware of together. The breathable power of that feeling when you no longer carry that weight or be weighed down by them anymore.
Darling do not hide the dark masks, it is ok and no matter how dark they may have become or have been or can be I can promise you the motivation behind creating them was fear, grief, anger, pain, abandonment, protection, survival, confusion. You do not know what you do not know and that is enough to take you back to the beginning and remove them so the true original you can be re-experienced without shame.
We do not respond to what happens, we respond to the perception of what happens. With all the possible interpretations we choose the worst one! You can see yourself as a victim of the world, try to change the world, so they won’t hurt you anymore, or you can actually empower yourself, and that’s what healing is all about. Yes, you the one reading this, it doesn’t matter what you are experiencing or what state of mind you are in, it’s human, it’s transmutable and transformable, because that true self that you got disconnected from is still available to you.
“Your conflicts, all the difficult things, the problematic situations in your life, are not by chance or coincidence. They are actually yours. They are specifically yours, designed specifically for you by a part of you that loves you more than anything else“
– ONE OF MY FAVOURITE QUOTES BY A.H. ALMAAS
The part of you that loves you more than anything else has created roadblocks to lead you to yourself. That part loves you so much it does not want you to lose the chance. It will go to extreme measures to wake you up, and it will make you suffer greatly if you do not listen. What else can it do? That’s its purpose. We learn together the opportunities this inner work has to offer.
Going through an awakening will grant you the opportunity to remove the masks that you have created! You are a piece of Art! I turn your pain into art! This is a time to piece yourself back together in a way that can reset the trajectory of where you go , what you do, and how you do it forever. It is my Genius to help you gather the pieces of what you have thrown away or not even been conscious about and weave it into an incredible future journey where this place that you are in gets to be the last time that happens. Having experienced this personally, I understand this on an every level, and am here to guide and support you through this situation.
UNCOVERING YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF:
As you turn the pages of this exploration, you may experience a stirring within—recognise these movements as the first steps toward your liberation. Each paragraph is not just a collection of words but a mirror reflecting parts of yourself, perhaps long ignored or forgotten. During these intimate moments, feelings may converge, some comfortable and others less so, as you gradually dismantle the fortifications around your authentic persona. Embrace both the turbulence and the tranquility as necessary companions on this transformative journey. It is in the authentic experience of this process where you will uncover the raw, unembellished essence of who you truly are.
IDENTITY TAPESTRY:
As we delve deeper into the subject of identity, we must acknowledge it as the intricate tapestry woven from the threads of our experiences, beliefs, relationships, and innate characteristics. Your identity is not a static entity, but rather a dynamic and evolving construct that develops throughout your life. Each chapter of existence, every turning point, contributes a unique pattern to this tapestry, adding complexity and richness to who you are.
Understanding your identity involves peering into the multifaceted layers that make up your sense of self. It calls for recognising the influence of culture, societal roles, personal aspirations, and the array of masks we don more often than we realize. As we tug at the threads of past narratives and future dreams, we begin to unravel the essence of our true identity. This article aims to be both a compass and a map as you navigate through the landscapes of selfhood, guiding you towards the discovery of your unadulterated self.
How does this contribute to you building wealth,
health, success & happiness?
In the context of personal and professional success, understanding and embracing your identity acts as a cornerstone for genuine achievement. Our identity informs our choices, driving passions, and aligns our actions with our core values, which in turns grants a sense of purpose and direction. In the professional realm, those who are rooted in their authentic selves tend to approach their work with integrity and originality, cultivating an environment where innovation thrives.
Likewise, on a personal level, when we are in sync with our true identities, our relationships deepen, our self-esteem flourishes, and our life choices become more congruent with our well-being. This section of our exploration asserts that success is not merely measured by external accolades but by how aligned we are with our truest selves, which in itself breeds a unique, irreplaceable form of success.
“I am here to guide you to your individual differentiation and your personal revolution!”
“Rising and going through the stages of Awakening can be brutal but it leads you to the paths of success, fulfilment and profound transformations.”
WIDSOM JEMS:
YOU ARE A PIECE OF ART! This is a time to piece yourself back together in a way that can reset the trajectory of, where you go, what you do, and how you do it forever. It is my Genius to help you gather the pieces of what you have thrown away or not even been conscious about and weave it into a incredible future journey where this place that you are in gets to be the last time that happens.
YOUR SPIRITUAL KEYS:
There are universal keys that resonate on physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual planes. These keys are not just concepts, but actionable insights that align with the wisdom shared in your transformation journey.
- Key One: Conscious Awareness:
– Conscious awareness is the illuminating key that unlocks the deeper realms of your psyche, revealing the truths that lay buried beneath years of conditioning. By becoming mindfully aware of your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, you begin to observe the delicate interplay between your inner and outer worlds. This heightened awareness is the first step in recognising patterns that have held you back, allowing you to make conscious choices that support your true self. Embrace it, and watch as the fog of unaware living dissipates. - Key Two: Courageous Acceptance:
– The second key involves the courageous acceptance of all that you discover within yourself—both the light and the shadows. It is one thing to become aware of your authentic self and another to accept it fully. This key challenges you to embrace every part of your being without judgment. As you unlock this door, you will find the ability to face life’s complexities with a poised heart, welcoming growth and self-compassion as pillars for success. - Key Three: Transformational Action:
– The final key is transformational action, the dynamic force that propels you from insight to real-world change. This key beckons you to apply what you’ve learned through conscious awareness and courageous acceptance, leading to tangible changes in your life. Whether subtle shifts or significant leaps, each action you take is a testament to your dedication to honouring your true self. As you use this key, you set into motion the very acts that will sculpt your existence into a masterpiece of authenticity.
There are universal keys that resonate on physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual planes. These keys are not just concepts, but actionable insights that align with the wisdom shared in your transformation journey.
- Key One: Conscious Awareness:
– Conscious awareness is the illuminating key that unlocks the deeper realms of your psyche, revealing the truths that lay buried beneath years of conditioning. By becoming mindfully aware of your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, you begin to observe the delicate interplay between your inner and outer worlds. This heightened awareness is the first step in recognising patterns that have held you back, allowing you to make conscious choices that support your true self. Embrace it, and watch as the fog of unaware living dissipates. - Key Two: Courageous Acceptance:
– The second key involves the courageous acceptance of all that you discover within yourself—both the light and the shadows. It is one thing to become aware of your authentic self and another to accept it fully. This key challenges you to embrace every part of your being without judgment. As you unlock this door, you will find the ability to face life’s complexities with a poised heart, welcoming growth and self-compassion as pillars for success. - Key Three: Transformational Action:
– The final key is transformational action, the dynamic force that propels you from insight to real-world change. This key beckons you to apply what you’ve learned through conscious awareness and courageous acceptance, leading to tangible changes in your life. Whether subtle shifts or significant leaps, each action you take is a testament to your dedication to honouring your true self. As you use this key, you set into motion the very acts that will sculpt your existence into a masterpiece of authenticity.
PONDERS AND WONDERS:
The journey towards self-discovery is unique to each individual, much like a fingerprint, leaving a distinct impression upon the fabric of being. Through unmasking your persona, you encounter the freedom to exist as your most genuine self. It is here, in the wake of vulnerability and bravery, that your true strength resides. The path may be fraught with introspection and discomfort, yet it is within these depths that the possibility for growth and enlightenment dwells.
Take solace in the certainty that each step forward is a step towards a greater authenticity—a reconnection with your core essence. Reflect upon the idea that the struggles faced are not just obstacles but transformative fires that forge the soul into a testament of resilience and authenticity. Cherish this journey, for it is not just about finding yourself; it is about creating yourself anew and remembering who you really are.
AWAKENING FITNESS:
When you have had an Awakening so many shifts happen in your mind, body, soul and spirit. Your body changes…Your mind changes…Your soul changes…Your spiritual walk changes…Finding your footing after an Awakening can be overwhelming, with all the changes and fluctuations. You need to get Mindfit, SoulFit, Bodfit, Spiritfit...to align to what you Awakened to.
RABBIT HOLE NAVIGATIONS:
I’d like to emphasise that the most Powerful resource available is your own experience with the Source, with God, in whatever way feels Authentic to you. Engaging personally with the Divine Consciousness allows you to realize who you are, providing you with all the knowledge you need through this connection. It is in the quiet moments, when you simply allow yourself to connect, ask, and enter a state of meditation, that you can commune with your creator. Your heart holds all the answers, and you possess an internal guidance system that is awakening and now requires new training and refinement. This journey involves unlearning old patterns and rediscovering how to feel in new ways!
- “The Authenticity Project” by Clare Pooley – This novel explores the truth and lies we tell ourselves and others, illustrating the power of authenticity through the interwoven lives of a unique cast of characters.
- “Daring Greatly” by Brené Brown – Brown’s groundbreaking work digs into the courage it takes to be vulnerable, to drop the facades, and to embrace our genuine selves amidst a culture that associates vulnerability with weakness.
- “The Divine Plan: 2050” by Caroline Cory – Cory presents a visionary perspective on the evolution of consciousness and identity, leading readers through a profound journey towards embracing their divine nature within the framework of a rapidly changing world.
- “The Masks We Wear” Paperback – Illustrated, March 30, 2010 by Dr. Eugene C. Rollins (Author) – Dr. Rollins’ book delves into the psychological masks that individuals don as coping mechanisms, often subconsciously. With a compassionate approach, this work guides readers towards self-awareness and ultimately, self-healing by understanding and removing the masks that obscure their true selves.
- “Who Are We, Really? The Truth About Why We Think and Act the Way We Do” by Robert Wiedemeyer – Wiedemeyer’s insightful exploration dives into the psychological underpinnings of our behavior and thought patterns, offering a penetrating look at the forces shaping our identity from within and without.
“It’s no use going back to yesterday, because I was a different person then.”
– LEWIS CAROL, ALICE IN WONDERLAND
Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?
“That depends a good deal on where you want to get to?”
If you’re navigating the wilderness of a Dark Night of the Soul, having tasted awakening and are seeking strategic guidance for your rebirth...